The Better
Kiss Test
by: Cory Winn
OK. Let's imagine you're sitting beside a girl having a nice conversation. Maybe it's your first date or maybe you just sat down and started talking to her. And during this conversation you really start to pay attention to how SOFT her lips are. And while you two are talking, you begin to get the idea that "hey, maybe I should kiss this girl." Now, nine times out of 10, YOU ARE RIGHT. I talk to alot of women about this, and they seems to have a concensus: Most guys wait WAYY too long to
make the first move!
So you SHOULD go for the kiss when it "feels like you should." But let me give you a guaranteed way to make sure she's open to it. And fiurther, I'll give you a good way to set it up so it happens naturally and spontaneously.... Here we go: When you can tell the girl feels comfortable with you, then it's time to start "setting up" the kiss. This part is easy. And it consists of three things. One, you want to begin "triangle gazing" and looking into her eyes while you're talking to her. But two eyes is only two points of the triangle. What is the third point? You guessed it: HER LIPS. You basically alternate between her eyes and her lips while looking at her. She will understand! If she's ok with it, and continues sitting there, then you're ready for step two. If she pulls away or looks nervous, then you need to back off and drastically reduce the amount of triangle gazing. Now, for step two. You want to move close to her so you don't have to "lean in" when you go for the kiss. Generally, girls HATE when a man leans in either physically or "psychically." (An example would be a guy TRYING to get a girl to come home with him... girls RUN from that shit) Always keep your energy calm and comfortable. Furthermore, no matter what happens, you're OK with it. This way the girl will be OK with it too. Again, step two is to cut space (between you and her). You do this slowly and subtly. Just get closer and closer (but move SUPER SLOW) while you two are talking. Now we're redy for the third step. Step THREE: Slow down your rate and tone of voice, to a sensual level (AUDIO example when you opt-in below!) and also slow down your breathing, so she changes hers. This step is very important. If a girl is in "daytime social mode" she's probably not even thinking about kissing you. You need to slow her down. You do this by slowing yourself down. You may want to practice this in your off-time to get good at it. It seems a little strange at first, but it'll become natural after a few sessions. OK, now for the kiss.
I'm gonna give you THREE solid ways to set this up. Kiss Method 1: , you simply tell her to "close your eyes" and then you kiss her right on the lips. Now, back when I started doing this... I would sometimes have girls freaking out when I went in to kiss them. This was usually because I didn't do the "setup" like I explained above. If the girl is in social mode, she MIGHT freak out when you land a surprise smackeroo on her. But THAT'S OK! You just learned how NOT to do it lol. So make sure you really do the above, and make sure it feels like the right time to kiss her. But if she freaks, don't sweat it, at least you made your move! You'll do much better next time! (BTW, you're gonna be SUPER SURPRISED when you notice how many girls DO kiss you... I know I was surprised. I've had girls THANK ME after I kissed them... they say most other guys would never even TRY that. So give it a shot, she'll probably open her mouth and tongue you down!!!) Kiss Method #2: In the middle of your conversation, when you're talking slow and breathing deep, say "I'm trying so hard not to kiss you right now." Then, 30 seconds later, kiss her. This is beautiful. I learned it from an acquaintance named Chris P. It gets her thinking about the kiss (always a good thing) and lets her know you might just make your move (gets her ready for it too!). Usually, I couple this method with triangular gazing to really hit her hard. This method gets you the highest percentages of tonguedowns. Fucking brilliant. Kiss method #3: The David DeAngelo. This one is where you reach over and touch her hair before you kiss her... as a way to make sure she's comfortable with you. I learned this one from an information product by David DeAngelo but I really haven't tested it to the extent I can say "it works". However, I HAVE heard other guys having alot of success with it. Personally, I've usually focused more on the above two methods... they just feel more natural to me. Anyway, I'll teach you how and you can decide which method fits you best. While you're sitting beside her you reach over and touch her hair. You say something like: "Your hair seems so soft!" If she doesn't pull away, she's ready to be kissed. If she does, you need to back up and build a better (or different) feeling in her. Get her more comfortable with you. Again, I don't think you need to touch her hair before you kiss her. But I'll leave it up to you. OK, you've learned some SOLID rules for kissing girls... but I wanna give you another "method" I've found pretty useful in clubs and loud bars. The True Powerhouse Kiss Method
THE CAVEMAN. This is where you just grab her and kiss her. I've done this about 5 times in my life. And for it to work, you HAVE to be 100% SURE it's going to work. You can't "half-ass" it. You really have to put your passion into the act. I'm sure you hav a nice mental picture already of how this works for you. I'll leave it up to you. BTW, If you're looking for a detailed AUDIO RECORDING of how to shift gears and slow down your breathing, you may want to enter your name and email below. You'll be automatically signed up for my badass email newsletter, and you'll be linked directly to the Kiss Test Audio...
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